Show Notes

Welcome to another episode of Late Talks on Air for Monday, August 4th, 2025! 

Did you know that this show – Late Talks on Air is an InRetro Studios production – a company I started 20 years ago this year? 

To commemorate our 20th anniversary, we’ve compiled a list I’m calling the highlight reel – 20 lessons learned for 20-somethings and beyond! 

I’ve shared the list below – but tune in for additional nuance and accompanying stories!

Until next time,

The List.

20 Lessons Learned for 20-Somethings and Beyond

  1. Learn and know your courage. It’s okay to be fearful, but not to become paralyzed because of it. It’s not courage if there’s no fear in it. Doing something despite fear – that’s courage. 
  2. Start something new using the tools you already have (at first).
  3. Build a skillset — Oftentimes, this happens with steps one and two.
  4. Be willing to fail and start again.
  5. Approach the hard things through the lens of a child – find your inner curiosity. In other words, don’t limit yourself to what you think you already know.
  6. Never stop learning. Always be willing to try something new.
  7. If you find yourself in harm’s way – or in a situation where something doesn’t feel right – get out.
  8. Be willing to risk rejection. Be the first one to reach out to others.
  9. In social situations, accept “no” the first time it’s given. Once you’ve reached out to someone and, in so many words, they have told you they’re not interested, dust yourself off and move on. Do not take it personally.
  10. Assume the best of others (until proven otherwise) – and never judge a person based on other experiences you have had.
  11. Ask [for the business], do not assume it’s yours.
  12. Embrace conversations and perhaps even friendships with people who are different from you. 
  13. Wherever you are – find your place(s).
  14. Be available to opportunity – Learn to operate in the present – notice what is happening around you – you never know who needs you to step in!
  15. Give without the expectation of receiving – let the gift be its own reward.
  16. Be hospitable. Host things – invite people over for coffee. Have a game night – share a meal.
  17. Establish traditions, and if there aren’t any within your circle – start one!
  18. Live within your means (starts with using what you already have).
  19. Don’t make promises lightly.
  20. Never break a promise you made to yourself.